可以做淑女，有谁要做妓女。Given a choice to be a fair lady, who wants to be a whore

Sorry, this is not to insult anyone or any profession. We are all results of our past experience, be it good or bad, long or short. We are what we are, sometimes, it's by choice, but I am sure more often than not, it was not by our own choice. For those of us in the more fortunate positions, can we not be more gracious and understanding. For those who are able and willing, can we not extend our help? Don't be too fast in passing the verdict and judgement. Often, we hear people who are really fortunate pass such remarks like "they bring it upon themselves...", "they are poor because they are just too lazy..."," he's in poor health because he just wants to make more money...".  Really ???